The Logic of Giving Without Giving

Jacques Lacan taught us that love is giving what one does not have. How can one give what one does not have? Further, Jacques Derrida puts love to the order of the impossible. How are we to love if it is impossible?  Both teach us that love does not belong to the order of the giveable. Love, therefore, is...


Hate is not the first enemy of love.

Fear is! It destroys your ability to trust.

- Fr Victor Ferrao